January 22, 2014

2014 Goals: The "Whole 30" Challenge

2014 Goal 1:

I just recently got back to Crossfit.  My friend Sonya and I started going to Newberg Crossfit around the time they opened.  I continued to work out into the beginning of my pregnancy with Ava but due to moving and bedrest I had to stop.  I talked about it for months and months and finally convinced my husband I just HAD to go back.  It's an amazing work out with a strong gymnastics background and emphasis on community.  It's a perfect fit really.  This month they have invited anyone to do the whole30 challenge.  I told Rick about it and he agreed to do it with me.  Here is a snapshot:


The entire program is based on a book called "It Starts With Food."  I have not (and probably won't) jumped on the whole Paleo bandwagon.  However, I was attracted to this challenge because I would be doing it alongside others and it seemed easy enough to follow. I love that you don't count anything and you really help your body cleanse and break habits.  I have always LOVED food.  I love good food just as much as I love bad food.  Because of this, I have had a hard time getting into a good and proper relationship with food.  The "stricter" regime of this challenge really has opened my eyes to my personal habits.  

I graze and snack a LOT.  I did not realize this.  It has taken a lot of conscious effort to stop myself from taking a bite of my kids food.  I cut the crust off, I feel the need or urge to eat it.  That has been very eye opening.  

Food fills time.  The first thing I think about when I get my kids down for a nap is a snack.  I didn't even realize I did this.  I also go to food when I am bored.  Not being able to do this has really helped break that crutch; I really relied on food to accompany me through my day as opposed to nurishing me.  

Food make this more fun. This is a big one for me.  I love being with people or spending time watching a movie with my husband.  Whatever it is, food needed to be involved.  Not being able to do this has been crazy!  I never realized how much I had these things tied together.  Now, I don't think sitting down to popcorn and a movie is bad by any means but do you really need it every night?  

I have had quite a few people ask me how I plan and what it has looked like so I figured I would just provide a sample week.  I have taken a lot of my meal ideas from the blog Whole Family Strong.  This program really helped me to sit down and plan the weeks out.  One deal I made with the husband was that if he agreed to do this I would pack his breakfast and lunch everyday.  He has really LOVED this and it has made things easy (and again forced me to plan).

Sunday: plan dinners for the week, rough lunch ideas (if no leftovers), make breakfast for Rick to take each day.

Monday: Breakfast (C) - scrambled eggs with spinach and salsa
              Breakfast (R) - either a piece of Quiche I made him for the week or a piece of Apple Bumpkin Cake  (kids loved this one.  Ariy would eat it mixed into yogurt with a little extra cinnamon)
              Lunch - big salad with chicken on top and any other veggies, monkey salad  *I would buy a rotisserie chicken in the beginning of the week and use it all week.  You have to find one without sugar added though.  I lalso would buy a large thing of mixed greens or spinach for salads.  
              Dinner: Spaghetti Squash with red marinara meat sauce (use ground beef or italian sausage)
               ** Make some cauliflower rice for the rest of the week.  Save half of spaghetti squash for next night.  

Tuesday:  Breakfast - basically continues to look the same for R (quiche or ABC)  & C (eggs of some sort)
               Lunch - in a wok or large pan throw together chicken, cauliflower rice, any veggies, curry spices and a little coconut milk (full fat canned).  I LOVED this lunch and it took me no time using the premade cauliflower rice and rotisserie chicken.
               Dinner - Paleo Pad Thai using the other half of lasts nights spaghetti squash.  I LOVED this and I just used what I had for the sauce.  I did not have all the ingredients and it still turned out good. 

Wednesday: Lunch - leftovers and a salad
                  Dinner: Lettuce wrapped burritos - I seasoned some ground beef and stir fried veggies like peppers, onions, mushrooms, spinach, etc.  We used romaine lettuce to bundle the mixture up in.  I added avocado to mine.  Kids got theirs in actual tortillas.  

Thursday: Lunch - salad with either stir fried veggies on top or roasted veggies and chicken
               Dinner - My made up Zucca Tuscana soup (made in crockpot).  Through in cooked/browned italian sausage, and onion, sweet potato, salt and pepper and some beef broth.  At the end - added lots of spinach.  

Friday: - Breakfast - Apple Bumpkin Cake
                Lunch - leftovers and salad with pear and walnuts
              Dinner - Sweet potato hash and scrambled eggs with spinach (and sausage - I could take or leave the sausage on this one).  

Rick's packed lunches often looked like:  leftovers, salad with chicken or a precooked chicken sausage.  I usually put 1 piece of fruit in OR some ants on a log, some nuts or nut butter and carrots and celery sticks.  

These were some of our favorites so far and I felt like pretty easy to make.  

Here are some really helpful recipe links:

Tomorrow is day 20 for us and neither of us have cheated!  It's been amazing.  We are finally feeling like it is much easier and the cravings are going away if not gone.  I feel really good and hope to continue to do something similar long term but incorporating some more foods back to the equation (not sure what yet).  




January 14, 2014

2013 Year in Pictures!

2013 I feel should be called the "Year of major life events/Year of Ava."  Ava pretty quickly made herself known in 2013.  She was born 11 days into the year and has been a constant joy and how do I say it, delightful challenge ever since.  She came out wide eyed and made it known pretty quickly that sleep would never be her favorite thing.  We struggled with that a lot the first 6 months of 2013.  In that time we also, moved, bought our first house, celebrated Ariy's 2nd birthday, Rick started a new and first 9-5 job, I also started teaching Gymnastics very part time.  A LOT of changes.  By Ava's 6th month birthday, things had mostly settled down and we were really in the swing of things in this "new life."  Fall and Winter of 2013 were challenging in different ways.  The weather no longer permitted our daily outdoor adventures and both myself and Rick lost close relatives.



For myself personally, the end of 2013 was an emotional whirlwind.  There was some hard stuff going on for friends and family including the passing of my Great Aunt Barbara.  She was someone I highly respected and always took great care of me and my entire life.  She was a teacher, told amazing story's and an artist as well.  She knew all my closest friends and always asked how they were doing.  She was someone who truly cared.  I am soooo thankful that at the age of 88 she was able to take a trip out here and meet Ariy for the second time and Ava for the first.  It was very special to me.  The trip back to Boston for the funeral was an amazing trip for me.  I was so thankful I had enough miles to pay for a ticket back so last minute.  I was really happy to see friends and family that I have not been able to see for a while.  Ava was quite the sassypants on the trip but everyone loved her.  I really miss every back east but this was the first trip I got a good amount of quality time with family which I really needed.  I have a lot of "unfinished" business with my past.  I had a number of questions and was anxious to ask my Aunts all about it.  The digging really lead to some pretty huge things but great things.  I am excited to process this more and maybe share eventually.

 Coming home to two little kids and the thick of winter and Christmas was hard for whatever reason.  I was tired and just emotionally spent.  This all came out on New Year's day.  We all got sick the week of Christmas and it was finally my turn.  I felt horrible and was tired and angry.  I was finally broken enough to share and be open with Rick.

I think that low day has really catapulted me into a new year of motivation to really set some goals and make long term changes.  I don't think I am starting from scratch with some of these things and some are habits I used to have but have fallen away from.  I am confident I can make these changes with help and support and lots of prayer and grace.  Goal lists to come on another blog later.

2013 in Pictures
January brought Ava Noelle to us
Miss Lara flew out and was able to be part of the birth

February - learning to smile and so much cuteness



March - where did all the pictures go this month?



April 20th - Ariy turned 2! 

April - Easter

more easter 

May - I started teaching a fun interactive Mommy and Me class. The first class included a lot of friends and we all made new friends.  

The last day of class in hot weather meant popsicles for all the kiddos.  They were not sad about this. 

June - we did a great family photo session with our good friends Photo Macy.  I also celebrated my 30th Birthday!

July in Newberg means "Old Fashion Festival" time.

In August we crammed in a day at the beach which I had been itching for all summer long.  This was from our really fun stop at the Tillamook Cheese Factory.

September was when we welcomed our new housemates and new found friends Aria and Tim.  With a name like Aria, it was meant to be.  Aria provides mommy with much needed down time during naps and the kids are pretty much smitten with Tim.  We are so thankful to have them living with us. It also was the start of football season. 


One of my favorite things to do out here is visit a pumpkin patch in October.  I was on bed rest last year so I never got to go so this year I made up for it and went twice!  We love getting pumpkin and apple donuts made hot and fresh.  
The year pumpkin picture (someday I will get around to doing a comparison)


I was beyond excited for halloween this year.  Downtown Newberg puts on a great event where you basically go trick-or-treating to all the downtown businesses.  It's pretty busy but so fun to see everyone out in their costumes. We were farmers and these two were our cows.


November meant a big family Thanksgiving up in Washington.  This year we all showed our support for Rick's Aunt and simultanously supported a GFU student Haley by all buying and wearing the EFF CANCER MOVEMENT shirts.  It was a "fun" way to be together celebrating thanksgiving.

It goes without saying, December means Christmas!!!!



January 11, 2014

Happy First Birthday Ava Noelle!!

I am so thankful for this little lady.  A year ago today, I was able to accomplish a big goal in having a successful natural vbac.  It was a quick and amazing. The entire room including Rick, Lara and our Doula Corie, as well as a team of nurses and our midwife all rejoiced as she came out with wide eyes and a full head of hair.  There were definitely tears and lots of adrenalin.

Ava has added so much life to our little family.  She attracts a lot of looks from her pretty blue eyes but just because you may oh and ah, doesn't mean she will offer up a smile.  She wants to rule her world and has some serious perseverance and spirit.  I'm so excited to see these traits be harnessed into amazing things when she is older but obviously has caused some tough moments this first year of life.

As tough as she can be, she is also loves to communicate and be around people.  She gets so excited when she sees her brother and daddy each day.  She is a monkey and loves to climb on anything and everything.  She is very active, fast and generally happy these days.  One of my favorite traits is how loving and affectionate she can be.  She loves to give us hugs and kisses and loves to snuggle with her bunny.

Ava fun facts:
Favorite toy: elephant that blows out balls and car
Favorite activity: climbing and walking
Walking: started week of Christmas
Favorite food: she loves pretty much anything, toast, avocado, berries and eggs may be up there
Words: mama and signs "more" anytime she wants food, also signs milk

Happy Birthday baby girl.  We love you soooo much!